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Welcome Captivate Readers

We are so excited you’ve been reading along with us. When you’re ready to take the next step check out our flagship course, People School, which we created as the advanced version of Captivate.

Never Skip a Handshake

It’s amazing what a great handshake can do! The oxytocin you generate lays a solid foundation for a deep, meaningful connection. Learn the three tips for a perfect handshake here!

Conversation Sparkers

Looking for a new conversation sparker? We have over 30 for you to try out and choose from! Will it be, “What’s your story?” or “So, what do you do when you’re not doing __?” or something completely different?

“Now, give me a chance.”

Aren’t you interested in how President Truman optimized his strengths to win his audience of voting delegates over? Check out his acceptance speech from the 1944 convention.

First Impressions are THAT Important

How did two TED talks covering the same leadership topic, recorded at the same length of time, released at the same time, have such a strikingly different number of views? We dove deep into what makes each Ted Talk great with some citizen science research.

Check out the talks here by Simon Sinek and Fields Wicker-Miurin to see the differences in their first impressions.

Liberator’s International

Would you stare deeply into a stranger’s eyes for one minute? Do you have the guts to let strangers cut your hair? Would you dare to stand half-naked on a street corner to raise awareness for eating disorders? The incredible and inspiring team Liberator’s International has, and continues to do so! Check out some of our favorite street experiments:

Communicate With Confidence

Do you struggle with small talk? Do you often run out of things to say or feel awkward and self-conscious in social situations?

💪 Speak so people listen,
🤐 No more awkward silences,
🚫 No more small talk.

Take a Vow of Silence

Terrified of silence? I dare you to take a Vow of Silence with me!

Uncovering Microexpressions

You’ve learned about the seven universal microexpressions in Captivate, but we know they can be difficult to remember. We’ve created this playlist just for you.

Show Me Your Selfie

Your selfie is part of your digital first impression — what is it saying? We have created this amazing free (yes, FREE!) guide for you to learn How to Take the Perfect Selfie and ensure you’re conveying the right message to your friends, coworkers, and potential dates!

The Big 5 Personality Quiz

Where does your personality fall on the OCEAN spectrum –are you high or low open? High or low neurotic? Hmm, absolutely no clue? Take our Official Big 5 Personality Quiz to find out!

Crystal

Crystal shows you the best way to communicate with any prospect, customer, or coworker based on their unique personality. We think it’s a fun way to get to know the important people in your life.

Snooping 101

Admit it: have you ever snooped on someone? I’ll go first… YES, I have snooped. But for good reason! People’s stuff says a lot about them — and it’s technically my job to study people, right? Let me teach you the art and science of snooping.

How to snoop

Test Your Personality Skills

Think you know the in’s and out’s of personality? It’s time to test your skills! Fill out a matrix for each character and double-check your answers with the answer key we have provided!

  • Velma Dinkley
  • Phil Dunphy
  • Ricky Ricardo

Here’s a blank matrix to start with, with the answer keys with the characters below.

Cuddle Master

Do you have a partner or friend whose appreciation language is physical touch? A great way to show appreciation for them is to learn how to give massages or do reflexology! Samantha Hess is a professional cuddler who has created an entire business around the physical touch love language.

She has created over 58 cuddle positions and claims to be a master cuddler—yes, really! In the name of research, I even booked a session with her and filmed it for my YouTube channel… want to see me get awkward?

LOL!

Want to add a little humor to your stories, but don’t really know how? Enter: How to Be Funny. That’s right! We all need a little help sometimes, so we put together 12 amazing tips for you to try to be a little funnier. Go ahead, take a look!

Citizens of the World Charter School

How does Citizens of the World compare to your old school? Watch this video to learn more!

Learn the Secrets Behind the Best Shark Tank Pitches of All Time

What’s the secret to the perfect Shark Tank pitch? At Science of People, we decided to find out by analyzing all 495 entrepreneurs in Shark Tank episodes.

Event Checklist

Use this checklist before your next event to maximize this social opportunity.

Social Dares

Here’s a list of social dares that can help you practice conversation, confidence, and relationship building in a safe and work-appropriate manner:

1. Compliment Challenge: Approach someone you know or even a stranger and give them a genuine compliment. It could be about their outfit, their smile, or something you appreciate about them.

2. Coffee Shop Chat: Strike up a conversation with a fellow coffee shop customer. Ask about their favorite coffee or simply share your thoughts on the coffee you’re enjoying.

3. Networking Event: Attend a networking event or virtual meetup related to your interests or industry. Challenge yourself to introduce yourself to at least three new people and engage in meaningful conversations.

4. Elevator Pitch: Prepare a 30-second elevator pitch about yourself, including your name, what you do, and one interesting fact about you. Practice it and use it when meeting new people.

5. Ask for Recommendations: Approach someone you admire or want to connect with and ask for book or movie recommendations. It’s a great way to start a conversation and discover common interests.

6. Volunteer Together: Join a volunteer group or activity, where you can interact with others while working toward a common goal. It’s an excellent way to build relationships.

7. Group Game Night: Organize a game night with friends or colleagues. Games like charades or Pictionary encourage communication and laughter.

8. Attend a Workshop: Sign up for a workshop or class on a topic you’re curious about. You’ll meet people with similar interests and have a shared learning experience to discuss.

9. Lunch Buddies: Invite a coworker you don’t know well to have lunch together. It’s an opportunity to get to know your colleagues better.

10. Mindful Listening: Challenge yourself to listen actively during conversations. Instead of thinking about your response, focus on truly understanding what the other person is saying.

11. Join a Social Club: Explore local social clubs or online communities that align with your hobbies or passions. This can lead to meaningful connections with like-minded individuals.

12. Random Acts of Kindness: Do something kind for a friend or stranger without expecting anything in return. Acts of kindness can lead to heartwarming conversations.

13. Storytelling Challenge: Share a personal or funny story with friends or family. Storytelling is a great way to connect and entertain.

14. Attend Meetup Groups: Join Meetup.com or a similar platform to find groups centered around your interests. Attend their events and engage with fellow enthusiasts.

15. Team Building Activities: Participate in team-building activities at work or in a social setting. These activities are designed to promote collaboration and communication.

Remember to be respectful of others’ boundaries and comfort levels when engaging in social dares. These challenges are meant to be enjoyable and help build positive relationships.

Master your People Skills

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