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The Art of Rejection: Body Language Tricks for Anti-Dating

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Imagine standing outside a popular bar on a Saturday night with a clipboard and pen. As each drunken patron stumbles out the door, you ask them: “Did anyone hit on you?” That’s exactly what 140 trained researchers from the University of Toronto did. They wanted to know how successful sexual advances are on the average More Info »

How to Be a Master Conversationalist

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Leave awkward conversations behind. I want to show you how to turn a bland, boring, snooze-worthy conversation into a dazzling, sparkling, fireworks worthy conversation! Here are 3 quick tips for you from my Master Your People Skills course: Check out our full list of killer conversation starters. You Might Also Like: Single Best Pick-Up Line Ever More Info »

A Little Itty Bitty Favor?

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Could you help? I submitted a workshop to SXSW–a mega, huge, cool conference in Austin and it got accepted! But now, I have to get the most votes for it to win. So, I ask a favor: Would you give my panel a vote? Digital Body Language Workshop You have to create a free account More Info »

13 Great First Date Questions

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Awkward silence is the killer of romance. The only thing worse is bad small talk. I want to help you banish both from your dates. According to the research, a flexible communication style—engaging questions, open-mindedness and easy back and forth is most effective. Below I have outlined my favorite first date (or second, third or More Info »

Single Best Pick-Up Line EVER

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Do you want to know what the single best pick-up line is? A study looked at hundreds of dating interactions and found that there is one pick-up line that started a conversation every single time. Watch the video to find out what it is! You Might Also Like: Killer Conversation Starters Body Language of Love More Info »

Body Language of Love and Dating

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I want to give you a completely new approach to love and dating. This course is going to help you master every aspect of romance from flirting, to seduction, to attraction, to connection. And it is for both men and women! Most importantly, this course will show you exactly how to attract the perfect partner More Info »

Vow of Silence


Silence scares me. …which means I have to face it. When I started my business 10 years ago I promised myself I would always face the things that make me the most uncomfortable. Growth always happens when we are out of our comfort zone. The idea of not being able to communicate terrifies me almost More Info »

Different Types of Lies


“I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth”. Did you know that this little sentence covers the most important lies we use daily? Let’s delve into it! “I swear to tell the truth” – Lies of commission If someone tells you something that is not a fact then we More Info »

Send Me Your Power Pose

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I want to see you power pose! I talk all the time about looking and feeling confident: …and now I want to feature you. Send me your power pose–bonus points for unique locations. Here is me power posing with Mickey:   And with the original power poser, Amy Cuddy:   We have already gotten some More Info »

5 Body Language Tricks for Travelers

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Are you about to travel somewhere exotic this summer? Here are some body language gestures that are different across the globe and tips for travelers. First, let’s talk travel body language basics. 1. Waiting in Line While waiting in line you want to make sure you claim your space. This prevents cutting and shoving. Stand More Info »

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